I once read a testimony of a missionary family on a south Pacific island. Things were tough for them. Treated poorly by the locals, they had barely enough to live on. And discouraged, they toyed with thoughts of giving up and going home. (Sound familiar, missionaries?) 

Until one day their young son prayed over lunch. “Thank you Lord,” he prayed, “for everything we have. Thank you for our family, for our house, for our clothes, for this good food. And for our beds, and the table and chairs, and the dishes and the glasses…”

His parents sneaked a look at him, thinking he was just goofing off. But he was simply praying from a heart of overflowing gratitude. That simple encouraging prayer restored the parents’ faith and contentment. And they went on to touch many lives in that place.

Contentment. It’s such a simple thing, and yet so hard to hold on to.

Contentment is defined as happiness with your situation in life. Here in the First World, most of us not only have all that we need, but so much excess that we often scarcely know how to manage it or where to store it.

What better life situation than that? We should be oozing contentment! But the problem is that contentment does not happen automatically. It takes cultivating and we often lack the proper tools.

So let’s unearth a few basic tools for cultivating deep abiding contentment!

1. Counting our blessings.

This seems trite because we’ve heard it so often. But counting blessings can help us stop wanting more — by seeing that we already have enough. And enough really is, well, enough!

2. Remembering benefits often overlooked.

Like those missionary parents we often take much for granted. Our soft bed, bursting closets, our ticking heart, even the air we breathe. We just expect them to be there, forgetting to see them as great provisions.

3. Rearranging our values.

Contentment IS hard in a world of constant hype. But with healthy values in place we see that everything involves a trade-off of some kind.  Shopping = More work hours. Stuff = More cleaning and care. Activities = Less rest. More technology use = Less time with loved ones. And so on. More and better does not automatically mean more fulfillment or a better quality of life.

4. Pursuing generosity.

Christ teaches generosity. Not only because it’s the right thing to do and helps others. But because it liberates our heart. The things or activities we allow in our lives have in some way captivated our heart. By letting them go or keeping them in their rightful place, our heart is freed to soar toward higher things.

“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also,” (Matthew 6:21).

5. Seeking right priorities.

Many seek satisfaction and contentment from money or success. But if these could bring happiness, then millionaires and workaholics would be the happiest people in the world!

We need things in this life. But true contentment comes when realize that we have all that we need and remember to thank the Lord for it!

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Posted by Sheila Scorziello

American born, Italian at heart. Happily married over 40 years, living in Italy almost 30. Mom of two and nonna to 9 grandkids. Missionary with a passion for showing God's love in practical ways, honoring God by caring for his creation, and helping others taste and see that the Lord is good!

18 Comments

  1. Well said, Sheila. I’m enjoying your blog. Thank you.

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    1. Thank you Cynthia! Contentment seems to so easily slip through our fingers. This world of plenty seems to make us make comparisons instead of seeing how much we already have!

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      1. Every so often, we have to look around us and see our blessings with new eyes. Same goes for the things we have.

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  2. Sheila, I’m so glad to have met you through the #RechargeWednesday linkup! I love your blog and this post is wonderful. Thank you. I’m writing about and praying for contentment for the next weeks- reading this was a help to me!

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    1. Thank you, Bethany, and I was so glad to have found you too. I just read your post on contentment and I loved it! I’m so grateful that some years ago we just decided to say “stop” to all the holiday fuss and bother. It’s helped us to really concentrate on Emmanuel, God with us. And that of course, always brings peace and renewal to our spirits. I loved your “little town of mayhem” poem, it’s spot-on. And I pray along with you for a quiet and peaceful holiday season! God bless!

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  3. Amen! Praise God!

    It is not the castle of sand, but the house of rock. May we be content, and may we seek Him. ❤

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    1. Great way to put it, TR! This world with all its stuff, though wonderful tools, really are nothing but castles of sand. Pretty, but passing. Unlike God and his kingdom!

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    1. Thanks Mitch, and on to the higher things!!

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  4. atimetoshare.me 17 Nov 2017 at 6:18 pm

    Very true. God doesn’t need our gratitude, but his blessings abound when we are truly grateful.

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    1. You’re so right. He doesn’t need our gratitude, but we know it warms his heart all the same. Because like a good Father, he enjoys sending his blessings. And how many he sends!!

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      1. atimetoshare.me 29 Nov 2017 at 2:19 pm

        Absolutely so. Even in times of distress he is with us!

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      2. So true Kathy, so true. And thank God he is!!

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      3. atimetoshare.me 8 Dec 2017 at 3:30 pm

        Amen!

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  5. Beautiful and so true. Love your action points. Now to just implement them all!

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    1. Yes Pete, implementing is the hard part for sure!

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