Simple slow living has become a watchword at the moment. A band wagon to jump on along with mindful, intentional, and whole living. And perhaps you wonder what all the fuss is about, “Why go slow?” Yet I know many who long for it.
Because when I explain how our years here have taught us to slow down, enjoy life, and have even more time for all that we love, I find many who want to escape the stress and frazzled nerves (or the sometimes meaningless treadmill) of modern life. We want a meaningful life that counts for something, but one that we can also truly enjoy.
Yet we often get distracted and lose sight of our goals.
We’re bombarded with sights, sounds, displays, and screens of every sort. And pulled in every direction by advertising, entertainment, and offers of success, wealth, and glamour. And it’s all so enticing that we lose sight not only of our direction and plan, but of how much we already have.
Slow living has its roots in the slow food movement started by Carlo Petrini in 1989 right here in Italy to counteract the trend toward fast food with its inherent dangers. It’s a philosophy of slowing down to mindfully eat good food with good conversation as opposed to eating junk food on the run.
Slow living expands this into a lifestyle.
A lifestyle which is, in many ways, similar to the related simple, mindful, intentional, and whole living movements, as they share many characteristics and goals. But I think slow living has one extra trait that takes it over the top.
A slow life is sustainable.
Not environmentally sustainable, although it really should be that too. But because it’s realistically feasible, extremely livable, and easy to maintain long-term.
As we say here in Italy a slow life is “una vita al passo di lumaca” or “life at a snail’s pace.”
It’s an interesting saying because it’s related to another Italian saying “al passo d’uomo,” meaning “at a man’s pace.” Which refers to the speed at which a motor vehicle should proceed in certain circumstances. A car driving through a campground or parking lot, for instance.
It means slowing down to live life as it was meant to be lived.
At the slower pace God intended for us. Just as cars are not built to always speed, we are not made to sustain a hectic, frenetic lifestyle long-term.
And that’s why slow living can bring numerous benefits. Like improving our finances, time, health, relationships, and work life. And henceforth finding that they all become more sustainable and enjoyable.
Work output improves because we slow down enough to concentrate on the task or activity at hand. Which usually results in getting more done and doing a better job in less time and with less stress. This is choosing unitasking over multitasking.
Time seems to increase. Mostly because when we don’t take on too much, it really does free up time. And because we get more done quickly, we have more time to do the things we really love.
Health benefits by eating real food and taking time to savor it. And the slower pace helps reduce stress, improve digestion, and create more time for rest, relaxation, and keeping physically active.
Relationships are deepened through spending more time with friends, family, and those we care about. By eating meals together without devices and internet, taking time for real conversation and sharing, and doing things together, we start to really connect or re-connect with others.
Financial soundness increases through not trying to have it all. Slowing down gives us time to realize not only how much we already have, but also the clarity to see that often we don’t need more. We just need time to appreciate what we’ve already got. And this can lead to less shopping and spending!
It enhances peace of mind by cutting out unnecessary or harmful distractions like clutter, social media addiction, and too many commitments or activities.
And it increases our sense of well-being. Because by learning to live in the present moment and enjoy it fully, we often remember to care for and nourish our entire person. For as author C.S. Lewis said, “You are not a body. You are a soul; you have a body.”
In essence, slow living is about slowing down to truly enjoy life.
And about building a more meaningful and purpose life at the same time. And who doesn’t want that? So perhaps rather than asking, “Why would I want to slow my life?” the better question is:
“Why would I want a stressful hectic life that makes me miss out on more important things?”
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